share what u like & discuss anything you want to learn :) ill start
im part of an irrevocable consent relationship as a dominant, which basically lets me do whatever i want with my darling. we don't know others into similar things to the same intensity so i thought this may be a cool place to meet others! we're both tgirls too obv
This post is like. months ago so I doubt OP is still around, but I like this board's idea.
I'm part of an open (long distance) polyamorous relationship with two bi (wonderful) people. :)
We defined "open" as the idea of a relationship where, with proper understanding and consent, let's us be free and do whatever we want while still remaining in a relationship status.
This means everything if fair game if the other knows what is happening and consents to it. They decide to go mingle with a friend? They ask us and do it or don't dependending on if it's ok or not. I decide to have a findom experience with a friend? I let them know and ask if they are ok with it. Did something happen before we we're consulted? Let's talk about it, figure things out, see how we feel about what happened and if they can continue whatever happened or not if it's still ongoing.
It's based on trust and knowledge that no matter what we do, our relationship never wax significantly. On the importance of clear and transparent communication.
We've been together for a few years now :)
Since the relationship is long distance, it can be difficult to practice kinks that we keep talking and dreaming about. We found some really cute and clever ways to practice some of them at a distance. Anything voice based works just fine. Other times bluetooth toys are involved. Sometimes it's cute lil challenges we set for eachother!
For example, I'm a rope bunny so I try to learn some new rope patterns on myself (sometimes it's really tricky!) and send them the work I've made~
>irrevocable consent relationship
What's the difference compared to a regular relationship?
>>1152589
>difference compared to a regular relationship?
not OP, but I think unlike regular relationships where consent for physical intimacy is given for each individual act of intimacy, an irrevocable consent relationship is one where the consent is given once and cannot be taken back. all acts of intimacy moving forward, regardless of whether both parties ACTUALLY consent or not, are "consenual" given that initial irrevocable consent. in short: they can't say no because they said yes first.
>>1152748
Thanks! There's another thread that has a link that talks about it, actually. That basically sounds like the gist of it yeah.
I get the idea. I would love to hear from OP his experience nowadays. Reading about it made me slightly uncomfortable yet intrigued because there is like this honor code that is respected and it's not like actual. plain ol' black and white "abuse". and in the end, the victim is fine with it all.
I do fantasies about my bf (most dominant) just taking me whenever and doing whatever he feels like it to me and I did express these feelings at some point. The idea probably got lost at some point and I wanna to try it! Not as long term as them. Probably like a week or two.
He has a friend that has a relationship dynamic similar to that from what i've heard from him. Has Background as an entertainer and with BDSM community. I never talked about his relationship in depth with that person because "friend of a friend" but I could probably ask him if it's the same deal. Or if he knows more about it.
dronification is such a popular kink, esp with trans people, but i feel like the current organizations for concentrated kink of that kind are really lacking. most of them are aesthetic things that add to maybe someone's (the platform formerly known as) twitter rp account or something. a more explicit organization could use making, but with very good ethical and understood foundations. obv u don't want people going around like that florida city council meeting where latex people asked for a dungeon to be built with public money, but something that's better at giving people what they want. thoughts?
here's a site i like to draw a lot of inspiration from, as well as just enjoying to read. lesbian nonfiction dynamics my beloved. feel free to post anything else you like to read!
https://serviceslavesecrets.com/
>>706507
>meeeeeee :3
omg can we together :3
>>707818
can i join 2
of course