oki

>>55182
it's based

anyone: *does anything*
Recima: I would like to know more

>>55188
lmao

Well, I am a boymoder ( and a single one at that!)

>>55188
recima is an alien learning about earth through this website

>>55191
no

ok does it work

awesome

so proud of u

#fireworks
congrats onyx

>>55190
#sharkspin

Not sure if its a bug, but i wasn’t seeing either of those ( i am on mobile tho)

yatta

#smartai flirt with a boymoder:
Hey there cutie! You're looking really nice today. I love your style, it's very edgy and cool. You seem like a really sweet and caring person, I bet you're great to cuddle with. :3 flirt with a boymoder:

>>55198
i think it does them but the zoom is weird so they get rendered off the page at least for fireworks

>>55201
huh, okay

>>55202
you're very edgy and cool recima

Btw, if you couldn’t tell, i’ve given up on getting any of you to provide examples of flirting so now i need to use gpt 3 to learn

#smartai write a flirtatious dialogue between a boymoder and a boy:
Boymoder: H-hello there! I'm a boymoder and I think you're really cute. Would you maybe want to go out sometime?

Boy: Uhh, sure! I'd love to go out with you. write a flirtatious dialogue between a boymoder and a boy:

an alien learning from an ai learning from reddit users

#smartai write a story about a boymoder flirting with danger
Once upon a time there was a shy little boymoder who went by the name of Sarah. Sarah loved spending her days browsing 4chan and posting on /lgbt/. She dreamed of one day being able to pass as a woman in public and have people see her as she truly saw herself.

One day,Sarah mustered up the courage to go outside wearing women's clothes. She felt so brave and confident! But alas, it was not meant to be. Somebody spotted her and started making fun of her. They called her all sorts of names like "tranny" and "freak." It hurt Sarah deeply but she tried to keep walking even though every step felt like torture.

Suddenly, somebody grabbed onto Sarah from behind in a chokehold! They dragged her into an alleyway where they proceeded to beat her up mercilessly while calling her disgusting slurs. This event traumatized poor Sarah deeply; she vowed never to go out dressed as a woman again, afraid that she would only attract more violence if she did so... write a story about a boymoder flirting with danger

>>55206
please dont call me an alien...

>>55208
ok sorry i wont do it anymore

>>55207
what the fuck :(

>>55209
thank you! this is really sweet and kind of you anon

>>55211
boundaries are important

#smartai write a story about a lonely boymoder getting totally boundaried:
One day, a lonely boymoder was sitting in her room, scrolling through 4chan and feeling totally down. She had been forced to present as male in public for so long that she felt like she would never be able to truly be herself. All she wanted was to be loved and accepted for who she was, but it seemed like nobody could ever see past her outward appearance.

Suddenly, there was a knock at the door. The boymoder's heart skipped a beat - could it finally be someone coming to accept her for who she really was? She quickly ran to the door and opened it... only to find that it was just the delivery person with a package for her neighbor. Disappointed, the boymoder turned away from the door - but not before spotting something strange out of the corner of her eye. There on the ground next to where the delivery person had been standing were two black-and-white printed flyers… each advertising support groups specifically designed for people just like her! elated and overwhelmed with emotion,the boymoder snatched up both flyers and raced back into her apartment.. finally feeling hopeful about finding acceptance after all this time. write a story about a lonely boymoder getting totally boundaried:

#smartai write a story about a boymoder eating mcdonald's and sleeping for 12 hours
Today was a good day. I woke up, ate breakfast, and then did some things on the internet for a while. Around noon, I started to feel really hungry so I decided to go get some food. I went to McDonald's and got myself a Big Mac meal with lots of extra fries. It was so delicious!

After eating my meal, I felt really sleepy so I went home and took a nap. I slept for 12 hours straight and it felt amazing! When I finally woke up, it was evening time.I felt well-rested and refreshed now that write a story about a boymoder eating mcdonald's and sleeping for 12 hours

#smartai flirt with me
I'm so lonely and I just want someone to love me ): flirt with me

#smartai write a story about a boymoder alien trying to integrate into earth society
A young alien girl Lands on earth and is immediately struck by the vast array of different creatures and cultures. She begins to study humans intently, particularly trans women, as she feels a deep connection to them. After spending some time observing human society, the alien girl decides that she wants to try living as a boymoder.

She starts by cutting her long hair short and dressing in masculine clothes. It's not easy at first, especially since she doesn't really understand all the social nuances of being a man on Earth. But with time and practice, she gradually becomes more comfortable in her new identity. She makes friends with other boymoders online and eventually even meets some of them in person. They help her learn about makeup, fashion, and everything else she needs to know about passing as a woman on Earth.

The alien girl is happy living as a boymoder but there are still times whenshe misses her home planet and wishes she could go back there someday. Nevertheless, for now Earth is her home andshe intends to make the most out it write a story about a boymoder alien trying to integrate into earth society

#smartai what are your hobbies?
My hobbies include spending time on the internet, watching anime, and playing video games. I also enjoy going for walks and being around nature. what are your hobbies?

>>55216
wish that were me

how long until cis people appropriate boymoder culture

>>55219
The fu*king second that happens I’ buying a boymodef hoodie (the one that says “boy” in red letters) and I will culturally appropriate as much white girl culture as humanly possible. I’m already halfway there with leggings, ugg boots, and starbucks coffees

>>55220
thanks for censoring it my mom checks my computer

>>55220
do u wear leggings i feel like you cant really call yourself a boymoder if you do

>>55222
I wear leggings under (short) shorts. I’m actually a “”Boymoder”” (not going to explain my typology on mobile)

I malefail frequently, but I don’t pass

honestly i feel like you probably should just tell that guy that ur trans would make it a lot easier

if you're not really boymoding

>>55225
how the hell would that work?

"hey. im trans"

>>55228
WTF???? But uhhhhhhhhhh I’m not out

>>55228
*head explodes*

>>55229
you have like his text or something right just type it out and then get really drunk on ur fake alcohol stuff and accidentally press send or something so you cant chicken out

>>55231
yeh

>>55231
i dont have any more of that stuff

You ain't gonna like it Recima, but this all goes back to something I said a couple days ago... you have to learn to open up

literally you have to tell some people you're trans eventually and it doesn't get easy, but it gets way easier

But what if he starts flirting back??????????????

isnt that the goal???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

>>55237
what would i do if he flirted with me???

Enjoy it

>>55238
flirting is just talking

talk bak

flirting happens naturally when you're excited to be talking/with someone

what would i say if i came out though???

literally do it right now

"this isn't even my final form"

say im trans

who cares

>>55244
it’s 11pm, hell no

no time is a good dtime

just get it done with

ummmm
ummmm
mmmm

NO

Recima, you're not ready, that's fine... you will get there, you're playing with the idea, and that's a path to growth... so just keep thinking about it, play with ideas. You will get there.

>>55253
do you think he’d like me?

I don't know him, so I have no idea. That said, I think you're pretty cool.

Like, i know that he doesnt hate trans people (and if he does then he’s extremely good at hiding it) but like, ummm

people our age dont hate trans people

>>55257
whats your age again

21

yeah, but he’s 17, thats different

>>55257
some do :(

>>55260
even more likely he's cool with it

>>55261
i think the ones that appear to hate us just think we're weird.

How would I go about with building up a relationship with him? >>55265 yeah but, like, how do i do that

>>55264
Easy - spend time together, and... get ready: open up

>>55264
lol by coming out is a good first step to opening up

Be vulnerable, tell him how you feel when the time is right (It will just happen, be patient)

ummm
um
but what if he doesnt like me

You learn.

what if he hates me

then you get over him faster instead of being hung up on him for ever

You gain experience and knowledge, you grow as a person.

he’s really cool

I wish I was really cool, I can dream though

i’m worried that he might not like that I browse 4chan and stuff though

Don't talk about 4chan.

idk
i literally texted him a couple of days ago (which was the first time i’ve texted him for over a month) and mentioned 4chan ( not that i browse it, but as an example for something)

>>55276
never do

>>55276
ddont bring up that website with real people

>>55279
it's our secret

>>55277
how long have u known him btw

>>55281
umm. Maybe a couple of years

like, i would see him around once a week (although like, me being with him wasn’t why we were in the same room together)

he’s like, one of the first people i told my baking blog idea about, and how it was meant to “Kickstart both my social life and online presence”. Be liked the white chocolate chip cookies i made for chapter 1 of the blog

>>55279
*unless they're also channers

>>55285
tbh no unless theyre like ur partner or smth its too shameful

therapist

>>55287
oh i sure as hell aint telling my therapist i browse 4chan

my closest friends use 4chan and know i use it 💀

i literally just lurk /lgbt/ though

>>55288
they deserve to know where my body dysmorphia and general brain damage came from

>>55292
thats embarrasing though
people who go to 4chan are weirdos

>>55293
the point of therapy is to talk about embarassing things omg they're the one person that you can share anything with haha

whats the point in therapy if ur just gonna lie to them

do you think my therapist will have any tips for seducing boys?

>>55295
practice lying, duh

>>55297
oh shit maybe im just dumb

>>55298
You and me both

>>55296
maybe idk

they get very patronizing about stuff like that though but maybe thats what you want / need

>>55296
Maybe ask "how do I talk to boys I like?", frames it in a more... normie light

>>55300
okay

>>55302
umm
if i did that then she’d know that I like a boy!!! I can’t have that!!

>>55304
and tips for seducing boys wouldn't?!

>>55305
if i asked that then she’d know too!

"I want to know how to seduce boys... in a completely platonic way, of course"

>>55305
that sounds more theoretical, maybe she's trying to write a novel or something

#smartai how do i seduce a boy?
There is no one answer to this question, as every person is different and will be attracted to different things. However, some tips on how to seduce a boy might include: being confident in yourself, dressing in a way that you feel sexy and attractive, being assertive without being too aggressive, making eye contact, flirting with him verbally and/or through body language, and touching him lightly or playfully. Remember that everyone is different though, so just do what feels natural to you and let your own unique personality shine through! how do i seduce a boy?

>let your own unique personality shine through!
open up.

>>55310
What personality???
i’m a boymoder, i have no personality

The you on the inside, that you hide from the world

>>55312
what inside??? the one that can’t give birth?

>>55312
thats fake you only understand your personality through social interactions

i wanna have a child so bad worst part of being trans is taking prog and then realizing i will never give birth

What is introspection

>>55316
#c(the contemplation of your own thoughts and desires and conduct) define introspection

This helps you learn your own personality.

i think you dont learn your personality by introspecting you learn it by socializing

I want to touch a boy and get touched by a boy

>>55319
Both work, imo

disa gree

>>55322
#editai remove the space

Be open to the idea that there are many paths in life

There's options, and no one right answer, or one wrong answer, many of all kinds

>>55324
are there many paths to seducing boys?

>>55326
yeah

but

all of them start with coming out

>>55329
how would i go about this as a boymoder?

"i am trans" hit send

>>55331
This rips the bandaid right the fuck off, it would work for the coming out part.

>>55331
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
mmmmmmmmm
uhhhh
but what if he thinks im a trender????????

who cares if anyone is a trender anyway people only care about themselves

>>55334
he might???!!!

he doesnt

>>55336
okay, but uh, what if he thinks im lame????

One thing that will certainly hold you back in life is: "what if"

>>55338
what if this was wrong
checkmate

>>55337
its more lame to be too afraid to state the obvious

>>55339
You will never know unless you try...

>>55340
WHAT??? I thought that boymoding was how you got to being popular (and therefore get value on the dating market)

>>55342
no boymoding is the opposite being confident gets you to be popular value on the adting market is weird

>>55343
but think of how confidantly I proclaim that i’m a boy! thats like, confident af

shit youre right

good night kiddo

>>55346
good night anon! thank you for talking with me! I know it can get a little draining or uncomfortable at times

:)

A healthy amount of fomo is a good thing.

>>55349
how can i instill the fomo of getting a boymoded gf into a boy??

The fomo has to come from within.

okay, so how do i get it in him?

You don't, you get it in you, and it drives you, and motivates you to put desires into actions.

>>55353
what actions?

Ask if he wants to hang.

>>55355
WHOOOOAAAAA...............................................................OMFG IVE NEVER THOUGHT OF THAT BEFORE

Or just talk at him, and hope a conversation evolves.

and a great source of fomo is that the clock is ticking... every day you wait is a missed opportunity, and eventually if you don't make your move, someone else will.

>>55358
that reminds me of something, I don’t think he’s in a relationship yet, but can you think of any covert ways to make sure that this info is still up to date?

How long until someone else takes a liking to him and isn't scared to make a move?

>>55359
Ask what he's been up to lately, who he's been hanging with, if he has any plans...

if the last time i contacted him was saturday, wouls he suspect that anything is up? Like, if i were to suddenly start texting him twice a week (or even once a week) he’d probably notice that something is up

He might think "Wow, Recima really wants to talk to me, that's cool... I like Recima"

>>55363
really!?

He might even think "I should hang with Recima more"

>>55365
oh no, that wouldn’t work like that. i sit in my house all day and rot

Ok, well... that's actually a great talking point...

"Hey I've been couped up in my house waay to much, wanna do something? I need to get out of here"

>>55367
huh, could you elaborate??

>>55368
I don’t think that that phrasing in particular would work, but I like the concept

You don't have to be verbatim...

I am typing how I would talk if it were me, adapt to suit yourself

I have a quick question

am I a psyop? no

>>55374
no, thats not the question lol
anyways, on this site, as you may have been able to tell, i’ve started to use more !!!s and ???s (specifically using more than one at a tine) to make my typing more fembrained. should i try to slowly incorporate this into text convos with him?

hehehe

>>55375
I mean, ymmv, but I think so. I think it's cute.

>>55377
Thanks for the advice! I’m definitely going to try to take it slow though

Go at your own pace, but as long as you're taking steps, that's what really matters most... make little bits of progress here and there, it all adds up.

Another semi related question as I’m thinking, should I explicitly show him this site? He’d (maybe) be able to find my blog, and possibly recognize me (and thus notice i’m not cis). I’ve been thinking about trying to recruit him for a while

Personally, I wouldn't bring it up straight away, I would at least get some IRL hang out time under the belt first...

>>55381
That’s fair. Do you have any tips for how I could shift online hanging out to irl hanging out? i dont know how to drive or anything, so that might also be awkward (i have hung out with him irl before tho)

Does he drive?

>>55383
IDK, but i think he bikes

>>55384
1) Ask if he drives... also a indirect way of just getting more convo time... you could follow up with "are you thinking about getting a license?" or talk about how you feel about it/whether or not you're going to etc.
2) If he bikes, do you bike? Ask about this, maybe ask if he would like to go for a ride together

>>55385
>1
i (luckily) do have a plan for what I’m going to text him about next (don’t really want to talk about it here tho, sorry). I’m not too worried about asking him if he knows how to drive. I am slightly concerned that he may not like me as much if i can’t take care of myself by driving, but IDK
>2 unfortunatelt no, but I am comfortable walking for up to 5 miles